The Art of Losing: Poems of Grief and Healing edited by Kevin Young

Galway Kinnell 

Wait, for now. 
Distrust everything if you have to. 
But trust the hours. Haven't they
carried you everywhere, up to now?
Personal events will become interesting again. 
Hair will become interesting. 
Pain will become interesting. 
Buds that open out of season will become interesting. 
Second-hand gloves will become lovely again; 
their memories are what give them 
the need for other hands. And the desolation 
of lovers is the same: that enormous emptiness
carved out of such tiny beings as we are 
asks to be filled; the need 
for the new love is faithfulness to the old. 

Wait. 
Don't go too early. 
You're tired. Everyone's tired. 
But no one is tired enough. 
Only wait a little and listen:
music of hair 
music of pain 
music of looms weaving all our loves again. 
Be there to hear it, it will be the only time, 
most of all to hear 
the flute of your whole existence, 
rehearsed by the sorrows, play itself into total exhaustion.