What If This Were Enough? by Heather Havrilesky

"Our dumb culture tricks us into believing that romance is the suspense of not knowing whether someone loves you or not yet...We think romance is a mystery to be solved...[but] at some point, let's be honest, death supplies the suspense...You want to muddle through the messiness of life together as long as you possibly can. That is the summit. Savor it. That is the very definition of romance."