"Today, romantic relationships are often aspired to by women primarily because of the promise of  emotional reciprocity and closeness they promise." 

Love in Exile by Shon Faye

 

"Whatever tone it takes, whatever magnetic field it generates, this latter kind of contact with inconvenience disturbs the vision of yourself you carry around that supports your sovereign fantasy, your fantasy of being in control...sovereignty is always in defense of something, not a right or natural state."

On the Inconvenience of Other People by Lauren Berlant

 

"Wasn't that what a marriage ought to be? Like one of those movie-style disasters—shipwrecks or earthquakes or enemy prisons—where strangers, trapped in close quarters by circumstance, show their real strengths and weaknesses."

Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant by Anne Tyler

 

"Any love affair is a creative act, part imagination, part practice; often, it can lift an artist to new levels of exalted energy."

Why Sinatra Matters by Pete Hamill

 

"Language, too, was a knife. It could cut open the world and reveal its meaning, its inner workings, its secrets, its truths." 

Knife by Salman Rushdie

 

"Because I still loved her: I could have stopped my own heart with my mind if it meant she'd come back."

My Education by Susan Choi

 

"'We can live any way we want,' she promises. 'People take vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience—even of silence—by choice. The thing is to stalk your calling in a certain skilled and supple way, to locate the most tender and live spot and plug into that pulse. This is yielding, not fighting.'" 

The Dry Season by Melissa Febos

 

"People like us had no talent for conversation in a faintly sterile minor key. Yet we were able to voice our truths in a minor cadence—or even a Schoenbergian discord. We stepped out of the preexisting frameworks and spoke our minds atonally."

Hunchback by Saou Ichikawa

 

"And after the squeaking finally ceased, the loud howling outside the door continued for a long time."

Minor Detail by Adania Shibli

 

"I write in the night, but I see not only the tyranny. If that were so, I would probably not have the courage to continue writing. I see people sleeping, stirring, getting up to drink water, whispering their projects or their fears, making love, praying, cooking something whilst the rest of the family is asleep, in Baghdad and Chicago...and I know that, despite the pain, the ingenuity of the survivors is undiminished, an ingenuity which scavenges and collects energy, and in the ceaseless cunning of this ingenuity, there is a spiritual value, something like the Holy Ghost."

Hold Everything Dear by John Berger